Best Withdrawal Methods And Sex Positions

Carrie — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 18:24:18 +0000

Recent research has shown that the withdrawal method as a form of contraception isn’t as useless as commonly assumed. There is a perception that using withdrawal (or “pulling out”) is as good as doing nothing (or “leave it in”), but most of us know this isn’t true at all — it has worked for most of us (although hard to prove), if not on a regular basis.

Taking hormones, using condoms and diaphragms doesn’t work well for everyone, for a plethora of reasons, making the withdrawal method a reasonably attractive choice for many.

A 2008 research paper published in Contraception magazine shows that withdrawal is only 2% less effective than condoms, go figure. Condoms have a 2% failure rate, withdrawal comes in with 4%. However, the real problems kick in when condoms, or withdrawal, are used incorrectly, pushing the total realistic failure rate up to almost 20%. In retrospective, performed properly, withdrawal is actually a scientifically proven, and fairly reliable contraception method for adults in committed sexual or romantic relationships. However, it isn’t called coitus interruptus for no reason: Pulling out interrupts the flow of sex, and some people might find this too interrupting.

Keep in mind that some positions are better suited than others for executing this method, as they allow easy removal of the penis, and can provide some nice visuals — you get a squirt on your breasts, buttocks and bellies, and can enjoy this aspect of lovemaking as well as feeling more secure in your choice of birth control. This is all a matter of taste, of course.

The Best Two Withdrawal Positions

The “Pull-out Puppy”

The Pull-out Puppy, also called doggy style offers not only easy removal of the penis. You know he’s in control, has free movement and can have more trust on his swift actions.

The Yahtzee

The Yahtzee is also known as the missionary position, and he executes a swift exit before explosion occurs. While in this position, he can pull out before he comes by holding himself up with his hands, then lose his load on your belly.

The Worst Withdrawal Position

The Sperm-Jacker

The Sperm-Jacker — woman on top — is a bad way to execute the withdrawal method. This is for the simple reason that it is much harder for him to escape while he’s not in control. It becomes difficult because he has to inform her of the oncoming orgasm, and she would have to respond by lifting him off her. It’s drag and can kill the experience. In this position, it’s also much easier for a women to get pregnant, should something get “left behind”.