You might still remember last summer, we published an article called “Sure Signs How To Tell If He Is Interested In Me“. As this is a very interesting subject for women, we have decided to revisit this hot topic again. Whether you are gone out with your guy for a while or he is just the one you secretly desire, how do you tell if he is really into you? Please read the following 10 signs will help you to find out.

He Pays Attention To You

Have you noticed his eyes follow you around? With or without contacting your eyes, he is either secretly watching you or he looks at you directly, because he is interested in you The eyes are the window to the soul. He is discovering your beauty and trying to connect to you.

When he is quiet, he is listening to you. He enjoys your voice, your stories, and laugh your joke. He wants to know everything about you. Whether you are in a bar for happy hour or with a group of friends at a party, he will try to find private time coming close to you.

He Touches You

You have noticed that you always try to be near you, because he is interested in you. He also want to take every opportunity to touch you. It could be your hand, your arm, your leg, or your knee, as long as his presence is physical and affectionate. It’s his way of letting you know he likes you.

He Keeps You Close

He wants to sit next to you, he wants to hold your hand, and you will find that his body leans forward toward yours. This move can be either very subtle or extremely in your face or by your ear. He will find an opportunity to whispering to your ear so he can be closed to you and sense your magical scent. It’s his way of letting you know he’d like to get closer. More often, wherever you go, he is there, and he is ready to be close to you!

He Runs Into You

Does he just happen running into you? He claims that he is happened to be your neighborhood, whether is in a coffee shop, or bookstore, or dry cleaning. Coincidence is out. Serendipity is in. You believe these are happy accidents, and you believe he is innocent and very cute! Take this as a positive sign and make the most of your next encounter. This is an opportunity to fund out more about him, encourage him to open out so you can get to know him better too.

He Loves Your Shows

He loves whatever shows you put on your TV at home or movie theater sharing popcorn with you. From comedy to scary movies, from drama to romance, he enjoys laughing with you.  If you are watching scary movies he is dying to hold you in his strong arm. He would love to watch his sport game or play car race, but he rather spend time with you and join your show, because he wants to let you know how important you are to his life. If you do this at home, you might want to think about of treating him with popcorn or pretzel, or even a glass of beer.

He Is Nervous Around You

Because he cares, so you will find you make your guy nervous without reason. He does not know what to say, and where to place his arms. He is shy because he is somehow a little bit insured and venerable, this down not mean he is loosing confidence, just because he does not know your feeling toward him. He’ll get goose bumps or a rapidly beating heart just from being around you. Look for signs like unexplained laughter, sweaty palms and fidgeting. Men usually try to hide their emotion, you make him nervous and excited. Be understanding and help him out with your kindness and gentle approach.

He Loves Your Friends

He loves to hung out with you and your friends, he will please your friends, he buys your girl friends drink, making joke and being funny. You often find your girl friends like him. He is taking care of everyone and being caring and courteous. He is happy, friendly and make sure your friends will like him. It is up to you to get feedback from your friends if they are fully approve for welcoming to the circle of trust.

He Opens His Channel

Women are verbal and driven by emotion, another side of world, men are intent to be visual and physical, and they are driven by different brain chemistry. If you discover him start to express his feeling, that means he is opening his channel to you, and he is ready to move to a intimate relationship.

Power of musky cologne

Just like the perfume she is waring arouses you, she will be turned on by your classy cologne come along with your charming smile. Smell is the strongest of the five senses when it comes to sexual functioning for two reasons: First, since anything musky mimics testosterone, it’ll kick her libido into high gear. Baby powder can have a similar effect by activating her “scent print,” which links babies to procreation. Second, because smell, sex and memory centers share close quarters in the brain, the scent of arousal leaves the most lasting impression. The second she gets a whiff of your musky cologne, she’ll be transported back to the last time she smelled it on your body.

Gentle kiss and caress

Kiss her gently, start from her eyes to her lips, ears and neck that makes her feel special. Touch on the right side of a woman’s spine makes her melt more so than the left side, perhaps because the left side of the brain controls her right side and it’s the logical side that can talk her into anything. Whether you’re kissing her there, stroking her or gently teasing her with a tickler, just make sure your moves are curvy. With oil on your hand massaging her with tenderness, will make significantly more intense than a straight touch.

Take care of her feet

In Chinese tradition, women are served a bucket of warm water to warm up her feet, following a foot massage prior to intimacy time with their men. Warm feet do more to make a woman physically comfortable than just about anything else — even more so if you want her completely naked, which is not likely to happen if she’s cold, even with the lights off. What most of you probably didn’t realize was the importance of warm feet in increasing the likelihood of her experiencing an orgasm. According to Dutch scientists from the University of Groningen, the odds are increased by 30%. Maybe leaving the socks on isn’t such a bad idea after all. If you want to try something sexier, a foot massage with a warming gel can do wonders, especially if you concentrate on the pads of her toes and the webbing in between, which are linked to her nether zones according to reflexology charts. Moreover, lips, hands, feet, and genitals get the lion’s share of brain space, where feet and genital centers are neighbors, making them share sexy information.

Concentrate on her G-spot

When zoning in between her legs, just as you appreciate her indulging more than just your package, she’d like you to go for more than her hood ornament. If you run your tongue around her clitoral head, concentrating on the 10 o’ clock and 2 o’clock marks on either side, and then gently slip your tongue beneath the hood, you’ll have her moaning from the intensity. While bang-on is too sensitive, those two sweet spots will make sure that she takes a licking and keeps on ticking, thanks to the bulbs hidden just beneath. The best way to pull off this maneuver is to have her straddle your face as you lay comfortably on your back. She’ll get to lean into the headboard so she can drive the action with ease, since you’ve put her in the driver’s seat.

Climax trickery

Time for you to take your tricks for a test drive. With all that attention, her skin will be flushed, her pupils dilated, parts of her shaking, and those she can steady, she’ll be pushing into you — until she’s done and can’t take anymore, that is. Now that’s how to make her orgasm for real and, trust us, you’ll be able to tell the difference.

Approaching a women or men a is not an easy undertaking for some people are, but once the conversation has been established, how to safely throw in some flirting questions?

Good flirty questions to ask on a date will keep the conversation interesting, but we got to be careful that things don’t turn weird and outright embarrassing. Sexy questions will tell someone a lot about yourself, and should hopefully help tear down the psychological wall especially during initial conversations. They should inject some fun, excitement and curiosity and hopefully encourage your partner in opening up about themselves.

There is a fine line to be walked by increasing the spiciness of the conversation, so don’t start asking about sexual favors before bringing up the bedroom. Men are easy, they can talk about most subjects out of the gate while women need more time to warm up and get to know their partner first. So men, be sure to take it easy, be flirting but if the questions make you uncomfortable, you probably took it a step too far.

A good way to loosen up the conversation, is to turn the questions into a game. Try to ask open questions that leads a partner to loosen up and tell about themselves and avoid closed ones that lead to yes or no answers.

Here are some flirty questions to get you started on your next date:

What’s your favorite place to be kissed?
Describe your favorite kiss you’ve ever had?
What’s your favorite color lingerie?
What color panties are you wearing?
Do you prefer ice cubes or hot wax?
Do you prefer strawberries with whipped cream or chocolate?
What’s your sexiest article of clothing?
Where would you like me to touch you more?
What sexual act feels the best?
What one word would describe the most pleasurable night you’ve had?
Describe the perfect kiss.
What’s your perfect date?
If you could take your date anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
Do you like men/women who make the first move?
What are some nicknames you’d like your honey to call you?
Whats the farthest you’ve gone outside of a relationship?
Whats the farthest you’ve gone in a relationship?
Whats your dream future?
Whats the biggest turn on in a date?
What would you like to be called?
What is love at first sight to you? Do you believe in it?
What do you think is your best feature?
What would you do for a romantic anniversary?
Where is your favorite place to be touched?
Would or have you ever had sex with an unshaven partner?
Where is your dream place to make love?
Whats the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?
Do you like to be on top or bottom better?
Would you rather me lick whip cream or chocolate off of you?
Do you like to get your hair pulled during love making?
Do you have any weak spots that i could bite at?
Would you ever watch porn with me?
Have you ever gone skinny dipping?

Let’s just pretend a scene: A gorgeous, natural blond-haired beauty standing on a ladder painting the walls of their home and marked down with colorful paint. She looks quite helpless. Her long bare legs disappear under a white shirt while painting. The scene begs for one to step up and finally gets his hands-on work started, and we certainly don’t talk about wallpaper.

Help is at hand in the form of a well-built friend who obviously knows exactly what to do. Close-up. We see a lot of hands on bare skin and otherwise everything important that goes with it. Including stamina. What is missing are close-ups of private parts from every conceivable angle and lustful glances into the camera.

Most important feature: Authenticity

Why? Because women are silly and romantic says Sandra Brancheninsiderin Maravolo, managing director of Inside Her in Frankfurt. Most important for women is that the desire for sexual acts are authentic and not staged for the camera. The new motto is “Heart Core” instead of “Hard Core”, where couples appear with more erotic and passion and less of hard work.

Women want to be free

Research has shown that the subject sex and adult industry in modern society has found it’s acceptance and is no longe considered taboo. Women are more open to erotica, sex toys and sexual adventures and pretty much broken the old social constraints. Recent studies have shown that 90 percent of women acknowledge their sexuality and desires, not inhibited to ask for satisfaction. 70 percent enjoy to display their bodies and 65 percent don’t feel any social pressures to fit into a paradigm.

Women fantasize

An astounding 81 percent of women explained that their fantasy included some degree of loss of control, while 66 percent envision to submit themselves entirely to their partners. This would explain why sexual arousal is based on mental connection, power and trust for most women. In case you’re a man reading this, keep this in mind the next time you like to seduce your partner to watch a porn movie with you.

Cuddle Quotes to remember

Come, cuddle your head on my shoulder, dear, Your head like the golden-rod, And we will go sailing away from here To the beautiful land of Nod. Wilcox, Ella Wheeler

My heart to you is given; Oh do give yours to me; We’ll lock them up together And throw away the key.

Frederick Saunders

Be careful how you live; you will be the only Bible some people ever read.

William J. Toms

I will not play tug o’ war. I’d rather play hug o’ war. Where everyone hugs instead of tugs, Where everyone giggles and rolls on the rug, Where everyone kisses, and everyone grins, and everyone cuddles, and everyone wins.

Shel Silverstein

With the tears a Land hath shed, Their graves should ever be green.

Thomas B Aldrich

The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.

Alice Walker

Life is the flower for which love is the honey.

Victor Hugo

I can’t understand why people are frightened of new ideas, I’m afraid of the old ones.

John Cage

Change when it comes cracks everything open.

Dorothy Allison

I myself do nothing.the Holy Spirit accomplishes all through me.

William Blake

Candy is dandy, but liquor is quicker.

Ogden Nash

All architecture is shelter, all great architecture is the design of space that contains, cuddles, exalts, or stimulates the persons in that space.

Shel Silverstein

There are in nature neither reports nor punishments, there are consequences.

Robert Ingersoll

The life long or short, its completeness depends on what it was based for.

David Starr Jordan

So Tom. I met him after my studies in Berlin. My then boyfriend received his doctorate in Switzerland and was far away. At first I could not stand Tom: He was two years younger, my trainers and damned arrogant. But it also irritated me. And at some point it tipped between us. We chatted for hours, met with nightly bouts of red wine in the park, and what was the strongest terms: We never touched us. No hand that got lost, no kiss, nothing. I had betrayed my friend and have never guessed, however, that long ago it was too late. Four months we persevered. The bodies of the highest excitement, the dopamine level at the stop. Until we attacked each other in a mixture of fear, self-indulgent bad conscience and unbridled lust.

Back to the past

But how do you find out what you need and above all, how you need it? Morin has for one simple tip: Dive into the past! Focus on the most exciting encounter of your life, remember as much detail as possible! Thank you, Tom, for this once exciting experience! Critical look at in the rear view mirror is sexual, understanding patterns of their own volition to get into central erotic. Why is this or that encounter was so exciting? How big was this excitement compared to your usual level? What feelings were important: Exuberance? Satisfaction? Neighborhood? Fear? Guilt? Anger? Recognition?

A fabulous relationship is not a result of hours, days or years of hard working, it’s rather small changes in behavior and attitude that can transform your relationship says Terri L. Orbuch, Ph.D., who followed 373 couples for over 22 years as part of a marriage study funded by the National Institutes of Health.

Most of us believe that the main reason relationships break up is conflict, financial issues, communication problems, or sexual incompatibility. Are we to rigid these days, not enough tolerant towards our partners?

Understand Each Other’s Needs

Dr. Orbuch thinks that the main reason is frustration, day-to-day disappointment of the gap between what you expect and how your partner acts. “To diffuse that frustration, share your expectations with each other. Maybe you desire more affection and he craves more relaxed couple time. “And be sure to check in with your partner once a year, as added pressures or life changes can create new expectations,” Orbuch says.

Show Him Some Love

In our society, women are complimented from work, family and friends. “I love your hair”, “Sexy dress”…And men don’t get that recognition. Have you heard any comment to men about their sexy pants or hair at work? Men need as much appreciation as women. Give theme affirmation, show they are appreciated, respected, and loved. Men rely on that attention from their women. Luckily, there’s another payoff to your flattery: He’s more likely to return those loving deeds back to you.

Talk 10 minutes a day

Take 10 minutes a day to talk about anything — except for kids, responsibilities, or chores, Orbuch’s research showed that 98 percent of happy couples say they intimately understand their partners. And knowing your spouse intimately isn’t always about engaging in heavy conversations: Anything that helps you learn something new will bring you closer. You’ll get to know each other’s inner world and strengthen your bond of happiness.

Focus on the Good

Fixing what’s wrong is not the best way to work out relationship. “The most effective way to boost fun and passion is to add positive elements to your marriage,” Orbuch says. “That positive energy makes us feel good and motivates us to keep going in that direction.” This doesn’t mean that you can’t feel — or talk about — anything negative, but “pretend you are weighing your interactions on a scale,” she says. “If you want a happier relationship, the positive side needs to far outweigh the bad.” The more you honor the love and joy in your bond, the sooner you’ll transform your marriage into one that is truly great.

And you thought it was going to be hard! Nothing will motivate a guy to reciprocate affection like approval. It’s hard to overstate this. Approval is what he wants the most, inside his deepest, little-boy self, and when he gets it — lots of it — his hard wiring will have him giving back to you in spades. So, whether you want cuddling, compliments or a night on the town, here are five suggestions to get things started.

Come on to him

Guys experience consent as approval; it’s why some of us are such hounds. When you come on to him, it’s super-approval.

Pay compliments

So easy. Let me get you started:

• Nice pants!
• You’re strong!
• How come you’re such a good kisser?
• I love your (body part of choice).
• What a good idea!

You get the point. Don’t wait for the right moment. Throw these things at him out of a clear blue sky.

Ask his opinion

He’ll feel heard, he’ll realize you value his point of view, and he’ll get to hear the sound of his own voice. All this spells approval for a guy. The bonus is you’ll get to learn what’s going on inside Mr. Not-Always-So-Talkative’s head.

Look him in the eyes and smile

At first it’ll be more than he can stand and he’ll look away. Then he’ll look back. You’ll still be doing it. By the third time, it’ll be all he can do not to drop and give you 20.

Stop telling him what to do

All of your hard work will be undone instantly with a single piece of unsolicited advice. Rule of thumb: You can ask him to do something, but leave how he does it to him.